Clients' Words
The relationship between the client and therapist is the most important part of therapy. Primary to building a relationship with my clients is to create a foundation of trust. Together we form a partnership in which my role is to guide your journey toward the changes you wish to make in your life. Some examples of what I provide and what my clients have said are:
I have tried to make my office a safe and comfortable space.
“Your office is so warm and homey."
“I’m so glad to be here.”
“It feels like a sanctuary in here.”
I interpret what I hear and offer insight and perspective.
“That’s it! You said it perfectly. It’s just what I needed to hear.”
“What you just said is a gift. Thank you.”
“I never thought of it that way.”
In this safe space, my clients feel accepted and not judged.
“I’ve never told anyone that before…”
“My eating has been bad. I’m eating bags of chocolate chips again.”
“I’ve been seeing someone outside of my marriage for 3 years…”
I provide encouragement and honest feedback to support your hard work, and I recognize and celebrate your progress, even when I see it before you do.
“I don’t know how I would have gotten through this without you.”
“I’ve finally been able to take that leap. I would never have been able to do that without our work together.”
“Thank you. My life is really changing.”
I offer ideas and suggestions, and I help you come up with and sort through your own thoughts and ideas. Then we follow-up and assess.
“Understanding now that I have choices has made a huge difference for me.”
“I used the echo technique with my sister and it worked. Now I just have to remember to keep using it with her.”
“I tried asking for what I needed. It was hard to do, but it worked. I know I don’t do that enough, but then I get resentful when my needs aren’t met.”